P Diddy baby mama drama keeps getting messier. First kim porter say a little too much in her interview with essence Magazine. Now baby mama number 3 or 4 or whatever got pissed yes that’s Miss Sarah Chapman, did an interview with Sandra rose, airing out Kim porter big time. Read both interview below , its long but juicy.
ESSENCE: You left the relationship in a very dramatic way. I understand you waited until Sean was out of town and then you packed up the house. You took the cars, the nursery furniture, the kitchen table, everything. Why did it go down like that?
KIM PORTER: Because there was no other way. You think he would have let me walk out the door? He wouldn’t have wanted me to go.
ESSENCE: Were you scared?
KIM PORTER: No! Not at all. But I wanted to be dramatic. I wanted him to know I wasn’t breaking up with him for two weeks-or maybe leaving for two days. If I pack up everything — twins and all — it means I’m out! Puffy’s an action person, not a talk person. So I had to have an action. Telling him, “Babe, I’m leaving…†was not gonna do it.
ESSENCE: Did your girlfriends come over to help?
KIM PORTER: I did have my little party-packing crew, yes, I did! My friends are very supportive.
ESSENCE: After our last article (“No Ordinary Love”, Essence, December, 2006), some readers responded by saying Sean was disrespecting you by not getting married. They said you should be trying to get that ring on your finger.
KIM PORTER: Do you know how many rings I have? I don’t even have enough fingers (laughing). That’s not why I left.
ESSENCE: So if he called you today and said, “I want to get married, right now….�
KIM PORTER: I would say “No.†And not because I don’t want to get married, but because he’s not ready to get married. When I get married, I want to stay married. I want both parties to be on the same page at the same time, and to leave a certain type of behavior behind. That’s a commitment I don’t think he’s ready for.
ESSENCE: If it wasn’t over the marriage, then why did you end the relationship?
KIM PORTER: I left because at this point in my life I want something different for myself. I invested ten years, I have children, and I’ve always stood by him. But now it’s time for me and what I want to do for Kim.
ESSENCE: How have you two been getting along since you left?
KIM PORTER: You know how when two people go their separate ways, most of the time there’s animosity? It’s not like that with us. Sean and I have this bond, this friendship. It’s not about ‘if you’re faithful to me, if I’m being faithful to you.’ We’re friends. I’m the person he can tell his inner most thoughts to and he’s that person for me. He still calls me everyday and we talk. There’s no ill feeling or ‘I can’t stand you, I hate you, don’t call.’ There’s none of that. We have three children together so that’s just not an option. We’re committed to our children even if we couldn’t commit to each other.
ESSENCE: Speaking of being faithful, there have been rumors about Sean and a baby in
KIM PORTER: Hmmm… Well, that definitely was part of it.
For the complete interview with Kim Porter and exclusive photos pick up the October Issue of Essence.
Sarah Chapman interview:
Sarah’s response to Kim’s assertion that she didn’t know her: “A lot of what you said is true about me and Kim. There’s so much more to the story than that. She definitely knows who I am,” said Sarah. “Yes, it’s true, we’ve had words. [Kim] knew about my pregnancy prior to her getting pregnant. In fact, Kim and I met [Sean] at the same time.”
Sarah stressed that she doesn’t seek out the spotlight: “That’s not for me. I don’t enjoy that. I’ll let Kim have that”
She also talked about the rumors that surrounded her pregnancy last year: “There’s been rumors out there that [Sean Combs] offered me a million dollars to not have the baby, said Sarah. “If he gave me a million dollars I wouldn’t be calling him every month for child support,” she joked. “I mean, he pays me on a monthly basis, but there’s rumors that he offered me a million dollars hush money.”
About her longterm relationship with Sean, Sarah said, “He and I are friends, we’ve always been friends. I’ve known him for a long time - 13 years exactly. Sarah adding that they dated “on and off” over those years. “I know it sounds very cliché, but we really are friends. It’s never been a situation where I’m trying to step on top of [Kim] or I’m trying to be in her position.”
Sarah expressed surprise that Kim dropped her name in the Essence interview. “She threw my name in that shit,” said Sarah, raising her voice slightly. Regarding Kim’s revelation that Kim didn’t speak to Sean Combs about Sarah’s baby until after her twins were born, Sarah said, “the scary part is that any woman can be with a man and not even mention to him ‘oh, I heard you got another woman pregnant’ - that’s really scary. For the longest time she never mentioned my pregnancy to him. She kept it a secret to herself so it wouldn’t take the shine off of her,” said Sarah. “I thought [Sean] was lying, but he said Kim never mentioned my pregnancy to him.”
September 13th, 2007 at 1:07 pm
omg diddy is such a player he doesnt deservre ur love or even ur time kim u go gurl…
September 13th, 2007 at 1:19 pm
Well the bad thing is Kim keeps going back for more of his womanizing ways.Home girl sarah need to sit her ass down, she knew puffy was with kim yet she slept with him.
September 14th, 2007 at 5:35 pm
he aint fair
September 25th, 2007 at 1:58 pm
:cool:Kim Porter wow I think she’s real stupid for having twins tryng to outdo Sarah. Sarah seems like a very down to earth person. Kim on the other hand Diddy had another baby that Kim knew about before she got pregnant with those twins. Kim really wants Diddy to marry her no matter what she tells the media she loves money hell her first son is by Al B. Sure. Kim should have been sure of what she was doing. Dang he chose Jlo over her Kim is a Jackass!!!!!!!!!
September 26th, 2007 at 1:30 am
Kim keep doing you, Sarah was never heard of until Kim dropped her name that’s the most publicity and spotlight she’l ever have. Sarah stated that she had been dating Sean off and on yeah right!! this man never even acknowledge you Sarah for except under sheets so dont lie and say you never wanted the spotlight, no baby the spotlight was never offered by Sean and it never will trust me.
September 27th, 2007 at 8:53 pm
KIM PORTER FRONTS LIKE SHE AINT TRIPPIN OFF PUFFY FOREAL….BULL!!! SHE IS PRESSED OR EITHER A GOLD DIGGER. WHY GIVE HIM 10 YEARS WHEN YOU KNOW HE HAD NO INTENTION OF MARRYING YOU. WE ALL COULD SEE THAT. WHY COULDN’T YOU. YOU SAID PUFFY IS AN ACTION-TYPE PERSON, WELL HE DISRESPECTS YOU BIG TIME WITH HIS ACTIONS AND ALL YOU DO IS SAY NOTHGIN BUT GOOD THINGS ABOUT HIM TO THE MEDIA. GET SOME SELF-ESTEEM!!!! PUFFY IS NOT YOUR FRIEND, IDIOT. FRIENDS DON’T MAKE FRIENDS LOOK BAD IN FRONT OF THE WHOLE WORLD!!! HE HAS BEEN PLAYING YOU SINCE DAY AND I BET YOU’LL BE BACK IN HIS BED IN DUE TIME……..SILLY HO!!!
October 5th, 2007 at 3:41 pm
I agree with commentor Lynda. Kim’s been in the spotlight. Sarah is the other woman whether she wants to own up to it or not. Diddy is a typical weak man. One woman is not enough especially when women have no self value and keep allowing men to take advantage. At least he can afford to pay child support. Women continue to do this even when men don’t have any money. Although money does not make the man. Stop fighting over this loser.
October 8th, 2007 at 7:29 pm
You know what gets to me about Kim? She has so many negative things to say about Jennifer Lopez (the ‘little Puerto Rican girlfriend’). She should have been taking notes from Ms. Lopez. She should’ve handed down that ultimatum and gave Diddy his walking papers while she was still barren. But, unlike Jennifer, Kim has not career - she’s too content being the classic ‘fall-back girl’. That and a glorified, over-paid groupie. And that ‘we’re really good friends’ crap kills me. Super Head was ‘really good friends’ with people too. I’m a single mother as well and I’m not hatin’ on Kim but….she’s making us look bad. I’m marrying a man that may not be a millionare, but at least he never made a fool out of me and put that rock on my hand - with a set date! Know when to walk away ladies! Make your own money and never settle for less than that rock!
October 8th, 2007 at 9:01 pm
why should one woman be enough
October 10th, 2007 at 1:38 am
Women have been through this many times. Sarah Chapman felt obligated to respond to Kim’s interview. Kim should not allow the public inside her personal life. She mentioned that Diddy should have been a man to tell her ,but I feel Kim should have been a woman and not taken cheap shots at Sarah. Remember we are women and things do happen however you don’t blame the another women for your man infidelity. Diddy was commented to Kim. Sarah was not in a relationship with Kim!! Kim’s questions and comments need to be directed to the Diddy. If Kim is planning to stay with Diddy then she must be a WOMAN and accept this and move on. As black women we need to try to handle negative situations with less Drama!!!
October 13th, 2007 at 2:55 am
First of all I would like to encourage you to move on kim. Forgive him, even if it hurts. Get youself in someones church and ask the lord to heal your heart,mind and soul. Your in a position where you can’t run from it even if you tryed. Stop looking at the internet and reading the paper and surround yourself with real people and not those phony girlfriends who wants to help you spend money and suck the negative info out of you. Hold on kim and be strong sweetie God will fix it.
October 17th, 2007 at 9:46 pm
kim is a golddigger, saying stupid things about jlo, it serves her right that sarah had a baby for diddy, after all diddy said no marriage, that what she kim is looking for, no talent bitch, baby making machine.jlo is an icon,self made woman, who knows kim if not diddy.
October 25th, 2007 at 4:07 am
Kim loves p diddy and he loves her. He’s selfish and thinks he’s missing something. It is sad when you have all these kids by a woman you love and still don’t marry her. Grow up and be a real man diddy!!!! Also, didn’t he deny the other child up until he had a parternity test? That ought to say something right there. Sounds like sarah may have put out when diddy wanted it, probably every blue moon. Sarah seems trifling. Of course kim put you in it sarah, hell you f***** her man. You put yourself in it. Kim baby girl, forget diddy right now. He all but told you in the essence interview you guys did together that he has a hard time being faithful. Lets just all pray for them all and hope the best for the kids.:razz:
October 25th, 2007 at 8:16 pm
both of them is not right for him. they dont treat him good enough. they don’t deserve him. i want him because i know what to do with a man like that.i stand by diddy in whatever he does.i only want him to be happy so whatever it takes…do it!
October 28th, 2007 at 7:53 am
What a dumb ass in these times of HIV going up in women raw he is a total loser His life needs a remix!!!
November 5th, 2007 at 3:47 pm
Kim girl, Diddy loves you and I know you love him but I don’t think leaving him like that was the right thing to do. That really show weakness on your part. Don’t let Sarah think she’s winning. I know you are getting a lot of advice from people but this is the advice you need right here: Get yo man back honey. Continue to stick by him. Yeah yeah he has a baby by Sarah…so what! Diddy don’t love Sarah because if he did she would be right by his side on the red carpet. We are not getting any younger here and bringing another man into your life around the kids is not right. So you and Diddy go ahead and have y’all time apart and in the meantime, pray about the situation because God…he really do answer prays.
November 14th, 2007 at 9:54 pm
Every person talking about sarah that she need to do this and that dont hate her how long kim been with diddy it’s like she don’t know what kind of man she got same shit with J-Lo all that shit she said about J-Lo her not being able to be a mother to black kids it’s all kinds of mothers of the world kim know diddy is not going to marry her because if he was he would had done it a long time ago she just trying to put sarah out there like it was her fault that she left if she smart the stupit ass should had left him along time ago but she thought she was going to be able to change him because of them babies ah! i guess NOT!!!!
November 19th, 2007 at 10:20 pm
Well, I’m not going to bash Kim because no one has lived in her shoes. Now, some of the blogs left is speaking about the JLO situation but she like the other girl Sarah both knew about KIM so why isn’t she the GOLDDIGGER or stupid so I guess these ladies are just innocent but KIM was already there they came in on that relationship. Why do people say that she is stupid he was the cheater and liar. No one is innocent but those kids. I wish Kim true happiness because she deserves better. As far as JLO concern hasn’t she been married 2 twice and in numerous relationship but I guess this makes her a ICON please that makes her EASY and Sarah please how can anyone feel sorry for her because if she has known him so long than I guess she thought he would leave KIM but again he is still seeking KIm. Kim raise your KIDS and love yourself seek GOD because he will answer your prayers whatever they may be. GOD BLESS
P.S. DIDDY IS NASTY BECAUSE A MAN OF HIS STATUS SHOULD HAVE USED A CONDOM IN THIS DAY WHERE HIV AND AIDS ARE RAPID ESPECIALLY IN ATLANTA!!!!
November 19th, 2007 at 10:41 pm
Sarah is gorgeous. She looks WAY better than Kim Porter.
November 25th, 2007 at 3:09 am
Kim, Kim, Kim. You and Sarah should know better. Stop being desperate and wait for a man to marry you then have a family with him. Puffy will get married and he will be a good husband to a good woman. Actually, I like Sarah’s response to you. She educated and classy. I hope that he marries Sarah. She behaves like an adult and not like a celebrity seeking idiot like Kim.
Leea
November 25th, 2007 at 9:04 pm
Kim Porter is a sad idiot. P. Diddy is not all of that. Sarah should have kept her legs closed and Kim should have finally sewed her legs shut. She’s making P. Diddy pay for a child that is not hers. Go after Mr. Al B. Sure. Of course not because he will curse Kim’s stupid self out. Oh, Kim’s modeling career. What modeling career? She modeled her way right on P. Diddy’s dick. She should now be fed up. Of course not. She is Kim!!!
November 25th, 2007 at 9:07 pm
Kim. Just STOP being a stupid whore, slut, baby having fungus.!!!
Go to church. Don’t go to bed. Your private part is beat up and stretched out.
Dummy.
November 25th, 2007 at 9:13 pm
Sarah,
i am not letting you off the hook. You are not representing Spelman woman with your actions sweetie. Shame on you. You thought that Puffy Diddy was the best that you could do. You are a beautiful woman, and it seems like you have a little sense. I know that we can make bad choices when under sexual pressure. You must not give anymore interviews or you will be labeled and scorned in that fake Hollywood world. It is not real. Stay away from those Hollywood devils. Kim is a devil. She is a sad person. She seems unhappy with herself. Low self-esteem is what I would say that Kim Porter is suffering from. Not you Sarah, you can overcome this humiliation by sticking with God and your family.
January 11th, 2008 at 5:55 am
Whats sad is Puffy had the nerve to discuss Kim with this woman he is cheating on Kim with. Where is the loyalty.
January 30th, 2008 at 2:05 am
Kim got just what she deserved. You reap what you sow. She did the same thing to Misa-Hylton Brim, Puff’s first baby mama. Kim Porter knew Puffy was going with Misa and they had a young son. She didn’t care. So, it comes back to you, full circle. I dont know why she is acting so surprised, she knew about Sarah all along. Kim is a dirt bag…She knew Sarah was pregnant so she and Puffy went to the fertility clinic had artificial insemination (twins) to out do Sarah.
May 5th, 2008 at 8:57 am
We as women need to stop blaming each other cause men are going to be with whom ever they want to be with. Kim is right she needs to concentrate on herself and the children and Sarah needs to do the same. As for diddy he needs to be up front with the women he is involved with. So if he doesn’t want to get married let the woman know especially before she spends 10yrs of her life with him.
August 7th, 2008 at 12:10 pm
I really can’t understand why women reduce themselves to having illegitimate kids born out of wedlock!!!! What ever happened to getting married before having kids? i hope diddy has a Will, cause there will be a lot of kids figting for his property and estate after he is gone…